a letter from our President.

I received the following in my e-mail. I appreciate the hard work and dedication the President has put behind his efforts to move the LGBTQ community one step closer to full equality and equal protection under the law. I am hoping the issue of gay marriage receives just as much effort as health care reforms, the War on Terror, and the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.

dante. –

Today, I was asked a direct question and gave a direct answer:

I believe that same-sex couples should be allowed to marry.

I hope you’ll take a moment to watch the conversation, consider it, and weigh in yourself on behalf of marriage equality:

http://my.barackobama.com/Marriage

I’ve always believed that gay and lesbian Americans should be treated fairly and equally. I was reluctant to use the term marriage because of the very powerful traditions it evokes. And I thought civil union laws that conferred legal rights upon gay and lesbian couples were a solution.

But over the course of several years I’ve talked to friends and family about this. I’ve thought about members of my staff in long-term, committed, same-sex relationships who are raising kids together. Through our efforts to end the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy, I’ve gotten to know some of the gay and lesbian troops who are serving our country with honor and distinction. [READ MORE]

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a ban on breathing, blinking, and thinking.

Ken Blevins/Wilmington Star News, via Associated Press

Recently, North Carolina’s state legislature enacted a measure that amended their State Constitution in order to specify a prohibition on same-sex marriage. North Carolina is now the 30th state in the country to enact such a law.

Tragedy.

In an earlier post entitled, “marriage equality: an alternative approach.,” I avidly explain my perspective that marriage of any kind — heterosexual or straight — as a personal act of intimate commitment between two people, is not something governments should be monitoring, supporting, rewarding, banning, or attempting to control or define in in any way. And, I maintain this viewpoint. [READ MORE]

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masturbation: sing the body electric.

sing the body electric

photo featured on art-or-porn.com

When we skip the small talk and get right down to it, human beings were made for sex.

We spend a lot of time contemplating our existence, shaping a sense of higher purpose around a duty to a higher being, re-creating and re-interpreting moral standards — but, at the end of the day, it all comes back to whether we’re getting laid, how, and by whom.

Being that May is the [Inter]National Masturbation Month, I think we should make answering this question easy:

Who: Everyone
What: Masturbating
Where: Everywhere we can
When: As often as we can
Why: Because we can

Too easy.

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to the grand rapidian powers that be.

Photo owned by The Grand Rapids Press

To the Grand Rapidian Powers That Be:

First things first, do not panic.

I know the initial instinct upon witnessing an act of free expression is to suppress it. This is a perfectly natural response for those marinated in lifelong conservatism, lightly sauteed in self-righteousness.

The “graffiti” currently gracing your beautiful city streets is what us “common” people call art. [READ MORE]

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3 guilty, 6 acquited: Somali child prostitution and human trafficking

A federal jury has convicted three men but acquitted five others and one woman of involvement in the sex trafficking of Somali girls in Minnesota and Tennessee.

The nine are among 30 people indicted for allegedly trafficking or conspiring to traffic juveniles in the Minneapolis-St. Paul area, Nashville, Tenn., and Columbus, Ohio. The other 21, including two women, may face trial in the future.

In Nashville today, Idris Ibrahim Fahra, Andrew Kayachith and Yassin Abdirahman Yusuf, all of the Twin Cities, were found guilty of conspiracy to commit sex trafficking of children by force, fraud or coercion,the Associated Press reports. They were also charged with child sex trafficking and attempted child sex trafficking; only Fahra was convicted of child sex trafficking.

All could be sentenced to life. No sentencing date was set. [READ MORE]

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may is national masturbation month!

May is National Masturbation Month!

To celebrate, I update the “play.” page with new product reviews that are bound to knock your socks off! So, stop on by, take a peek, and maybe you’ll pick yourself out a brand new B.o.B ;-)

Here’s a little background history on the holiday, compliments of the fine folks at Wikipedia:

“In May, 1995, San Francisco–based sex-toy and -education shop Good Vibrations declared May to be “Masturbation Month”. Since then, it has encouraged people to get sponsors as a fundraiser for charities with a sex-positive focus.

In 1999, the Masturbate-a-Thon was originated by the collective Open Enterprises, which operates Good Vibrations. The slogan “Come for a Cause” was coined by Rachel Venning, the founder of the sex toy shop Babeland, formerly Toy in Babeland, which has branches in Seattle, in Brooklyn, and (two) in Manhattan. [READ MORE]

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